WELLBEING & RELATIONSHIP specialist
“The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to let it come in.” Morrie Schwartz, ‘Tuesdays with Morrie’
Learning to fully love and accept our self and others is a huge part of how we heal and grow. For most of us, this is an ongoing and ever-evolving journey, and there are times when we can feel very stuck and overwhelmed and unsure what to do next.
If this is you, welcome, you’re in exactly the right place. I support my clients to get in touch with who they truly are, what they want and how they can fully express this both as individuals and in their relationships -even if it doesn’t appear to align with the current cultural ‘norms’ or ‘shoulds’ that most of us have been raised and indoctrinated with.
I CAN SUPPORT YOU WITH:
Creating a life of authenticity, wellbeing and freedom that is fully in alignment with who you truly are and your unique needs and desires.
Learning to tap into and live from your own source of guidance and wisdom rather than being swayed by external sources.
Unblocking your creativity and barriers to peace such as anxiety, depression, stress and trauma.
Creating peaceful and deeply connected relationships with your children and helping them navigate big feelings and tricky times/circumstances.
Dealing with conflicts, communication issues or ongoing negative patterns in your intimate relationships.
Navigating separation and divorce in a conscious, healthy manner (and minimising the impact on children and other family members).
Transitioning to new and/or nontraditional ways of relating, including co-parenting, co-habiting, bird-nesting, living apart together, living together apart, and all ways of relating that fall under the umbrella term consensual non-monogamy (e.g. polyamory, throuples, quads, open, poly-fidelity, relationship anarchy).
“Nicola always manages to make me feel seen, understood, and safe. She’s a true gift in a world where many of us have forgotten how to be vulnerable and authentic.”
Rachel B.
“This is a breakthrough experience not only for your marriage relationship but also about the mechanisms you develop to ‘defend yourself’ when you feel hurt. It’s about owning your horse feathers, growing real self love and therefore being able to love your partner more. Thank you for supporting us during this experience, the way you remembered every bit and used it in our work truly amazed me.”
M.S.
“I reached out to Nicola upon recommendation at a time when I was coming to terms with big changes in my relationships and embracing being polyamorous as a key part of who I am. Nicola was amazing and it wouldn’t be an overstatement to say she can change lives.”
James Aberley
let’s have a CHat
I offer a free initial consultation to find out more about you and see if we’re a good fit to work together, either via zoom or face-to-face at my home near Sandwich, East Kent, UK